For those who haven't already heard: Washington DC began issuing marriage licenses for same-sex couples yesterday after the Supreme Court refused to block the gay marriage law on Tuesday.
This is great news! It's good enough same-sex marriage is gaining a foothold in the US, but the fact that it happened in DC where the law-makers can see first-hand the positive effects on society... that just makes it perfect! Perhaps as same-sex couples continue to get married and demonstrate that their families can be a huge contributing factor to the improvement and strengthening of their communities, laws will be passed to make this a national standard.
It's coming... it's just a matter of time.
To the skeptics, I encourage you to look at places like Washington DC and see if your fears come true.
Heterosexual marriage won't be weakened, it will be strengthened when: a) people stop considering domestic partnerships "good enough" and start looking at marriage as the optimum situation, b) homosexual people will have an alternative to "faking it" in heterosexual marriage (where they're less likely to succeed and more likely to end in divorce), and c) an increase in healthy marriages will model the behavior for those who might struggle to stay in their own potentially-healthy marriages.
What's more, the de-stigmatization of homosexuality will have healthy results in that a) families will no longer be divided over the issue and parents will be more comfortable with accepting and loving their homosexual children, b) homosexuals will be more comfortable with expressing their affection in public and they won't have to hide (and ultimately undermine) their relationships (resulting in a poor self-image and worse), c) hate crimes bills can be passed to protect GLBT peoples across the board but their incidence will decrease and d) society in general will be able to take the focus off this issue and put it on other things (the environment, health care, poverty) that continue to harm our country and our world.
Children of same-sex couples will have the security and stability they were previously lacking, homosexual kids will have hope for a "normal" future, and religious organizations can begin taking a more constructive (instead of destructive) approach on working with the GLBT community... can you tell how I feel about this issue?
If you don't believe me, just watch. It's coming... it's just a matter of time.