There are few moments in our lives that call for greater compassion and companionship than when a loved one is admitted to the hospital. In these hours of need and moments of pain and anxiety, all of us would hope to have a hand to hold, a shoulder on which to lean -- a loved one to be there for us, as we would be there for them.

Yet every day, all across America, patients are denied the kindnesses and caring of a loved one at their sides -- whether in a sudden medical emergency or a prolonged hospital stay.  Often, a widow or widower with no children is denied the support and comfort of a good friend. Members of religious orders are sometimes unable to choose someone other than an immediate family member to visit them and make medical decisions on their behalf. Also uniquely affected are gay and lesbian Americans who are often barred from the bedsides of the partners with whom they may have spent decades of their lives -- unable to be there for the person they love, and unable to act as a legal surrogate if their partner is incapacitated.

The statement goes on to say that patients should be given the right to designate who their visitors will include and it guarantees all patients' advance directives are carried out in the event that they're unable to make such decisions at the time they're admitted to the hospital.  Similar laws are already in place in North Carolina, Delaware, Nebraska, and Minnesota.

Finally, the focus will be taken off of the biological relationship and put where it belongs - on what's in the best interest of the patient and the people who love him/her.